Who do we blame if you, or someone, makes a mistake? Well you usually have three options; God (or whoever is it your believe in that does not exist physically/you don't see with your bare eyes), those around you and yourself (which is the least "used"). So in which category do your blame fall on? It can be on the either three or a combination.
If all else fails people usually blame who is liable for all the happenings in an individual's life and that has something to do with their religion, for example God (which is someone I believe in). It's easier for one to blame who is not present and who can just "take it in and not mind at all" attitude. People blame these supreme beings, as dubbed by others, since their reason would be that is what their teachings said or what not. Maybe to some extent the teachings can be blamed but not every bit
of an individual's action should the teaching, or anything related to it, should be the only one held liable. The problem with people is that they always pin it to one, make it "centralized", and not realize the different faults that everyone makes. Though of course there is a glimmer of hope that people would not only blame the supreme being and instead blame it on others and by others those who are around them.
This "next stage" or just a different way of blaming would be blaming it on others/those around you. This may have little difference with the aforementioned type though it could still be categorized differently. When people start blaming those who are around them they become arrogant, unruly and usually outright rude. When that starts people/individuals usually end up hurting themselves and OTHERS. Unlike the first "type", where people blame a supreme being, those who are in their immediate surrounding will be the ones who will get the backlash/es of the blaming individual. While on the other hand those who blame the supreme being usually enact the backlash of the blaming individual on themselves. Though when individuals blame it on others their endless rants are also a "thing" to watch out for. Notice when someone keeps on blaming their family, friends, government, a stranger that he bumped etc. that blaming individual would go on for days, ok just hours or minutes, and he could come up of several reasons, both logical and illogical, as to why "they" should be blamed. Yet a small spark of hope is present in almost every situations and individuals will not blame their supreme being nor others but instead they will start blaming themselves.
When people now start blaming themselves for the things that are happening to them it could be either "they are right" or "they are doing it too much" scenario. First off "they are right" scenario, when this happens it usually means that the individual realizes his mistake and so blames himself in the process. The individual realize that he himself should also be liable on why that certain event happened. Though here comes the "wrong part", when such scenario happens people have a tendency to overdo it thus making it "wrong". When the second scenario happens, "they are doing it too much", the blaming individual have tendencies to hurt themselves and those around them. Though both types of hurting are present in the categories of blaming usually either one is less than the other. Aside from hurting themselves blaming individuals have more tendency to make more irrational and "wrong", wrong in a sense that it harms more instead of helping/benefiting more, decisions and choices.
With that said blaming things on to yourself, others or the supreme being is something that can be avoided. One of the ways to do it is avoid doing the mistake! Well it is usually easier said than done...
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