What might have been?

I’m sure that some of us would want some things to change. Maybe because you wanted to participate in that event, you wanted that night to go well or just wanted that moment to be “perfect”. Sadly things ended in a pretty low note or just not in a way that you wanted it to end. Though what if the predictable “the opposite” happened, do you think that your life would still be the same or at least would it make a big difference?

Think of it this way, you got what you wanted but how about others? Do you think if you got what you want there would be no effect on others? Often we become insensitive to the little when we do not get what we want. For example your order in a restaurant was wrong so what you did was you shouted at the waiter. That now caused some of the customers to become pretty uncomfortable and uneasy at the same time since, putting it in the “worst perspective”, you might do something violent. Luckily you just request for the bill, pay for the order (even though it was wrong) and storm off the place. If the opposite happens then it would surely be a win-win situation, you get what you want, the waiter would not get shouted at and the people around you will enjoy their fantastic dinner with their company. Though this will not always be the case, as such there are times that one side will have to sacrifice/suffer in order for the other side to be “happy”, and at those times when one side suffers the insensitiveness of the happy person usually becomes quite extreme to some extent.