Sunday, October 20, 2013

What might have been?



I’m sure that some of us would want some things to change. Maybe because you wanted to participate in that event, you wanted that night to go well or just wanted that moment to be “perfect”. Sadly things ended in a pretty low note or just not in a way that you wanted it to end. Though what if the predictable “the opposite” happened, do you think that your life would still be the same or at least would it make a big difference?

Think of it this way, you got what you wanted but how about others? Do you think if you got what you want there would be no effect on others? Often we become insensitive to the little when we do not get what we want. For example your order in a restaurant was wrong so what you did was you shouted at the waiter. That now caused some of the customers to become pretty uncomfortable and uneasy at the same time since, putting it in the “worst perspective”, you might do something violent. Luckily you just request for the bill, pay for the order (even though it was wrong) and storm off the place. If the opposite happens then it would surely be a win-win situation, you get what you want, the waiter would not get shouted at and the people around you will enjoy their fantastic dinner with their company. Though this will not always be the case, as such there are times that one side will have to sacrifice/suffer in order for the other side to be “happy”, and at those times when one side suffers the insensitiveness of the happy person usually becomes quite extreme to some extent.

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Which is which again?


               There are some things on this earth that you never know that it could make you happy. For example finish reading a book that has been in your shelf for around 5 years, eating breakfast around noon time (though that is not very healthy), playing games while half asleep, jotting down notes while thinking of what to eat later and all sorts of things. Though what is it that really makes us happy? Is it how we do it or what we do? Maybe it could be something unexplainable. It’s just a maybe…

               Well we usually do things that could make us happy provided that we were not forced to do it since that would typically result into us (the doer of the action) being pissed.

Friday, October 4, 2013

Money and the other choices we make (Entry essay)



               Often we see people that are rushing and unmindful of their surroundings, even I am guilty of such thing. We can’t blame them since they need to go their respective jobs and earn for themselves, family, relatives and the like. Though if you think about it, with each passing day they are becoming slaves of the jobs they have. Sure practicality must be one of the priorities but, is money or wealth really everything? Should it be the center of attention always that we become very unmindful of the little and big actions we do? With the kind of world that people are living in today majority would say yes to the aforementioned questions. Though the minority is usually, if not always, present in situations like these and they will beg to differ.
  

               Every time individuals are in a school, university, talks, or seminars they are usually reminded that they should get a job that has a high pay (salary) and you (the individual) like as well. Even parents would say to their children “Son go work abroad and you will surely find your fortune there.” The society already dictates on what course of action what an individual should take and it is pretty hard for them not to follow what the majority does. Even if they try to object the many, at least two would be standing in their way saying “No, what are you doing? Go back and go with them, this is also for your own good.” Now one has to ask “Is it really for my own good or am I just looking what is in front of me and not what is ahead of me?” There are still several reasons for individuals to say “no” and go against the majority. 


               First is that it can strengthen the principles that you live by. Often we hear stories that they did such action because it is what the majority did and what the majority believes in. Well if individuals are always going to bend what most would say then they are not living their lives properly instead the majority is controlling your lives and the majority is even living the very lives of the individuals. Second saying no to the majority will probably ignite the thoughts of others and make them question of what they’re (the majority) doing is right and most likely it is not. For example, it is true that a big percentage would want to be owners rather than be workers and live a more comfortable and luxurious life. Though why not work for the benefit of others instead of yourself only? Now the consequence of going against the many appears and that is sacrifice or self-sacrifice. Sacrifice is still present on the other side but when an individual chooses to be the one in the million, and then surely greater sacrifices and self-sacrifices will come his way. One concrete example of such is exposing the illegal transactions or corruption in general, that is happening in your workplace. The individual risks losing his job and even the risk of exposing his personal information. Aside from that having no steady income would entail multiple risks and problems may it be personal, financial or both. 


               At the end of the day money still seems to prove its worth and “power” over individuals though it is not everything. There are still a lot of more prominent and dominant “things” that are present, one of which is choice. If the choice requires an individual to go against the many do not be too afraid to do so but always remember to evaluate the choice that you are about to make. Think first of the consequences it entails and the benefits that the choice has/have. Remember that there is something that is more powerful than the other and one of them is choice.